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Dating Violence

Love is not AbuseDating Violence

What is Dating Violence?

Dating violence is controlling, abusive, and aggressive behavior in a romantic relationship. It can include verbal, emotional, physical, sexual abuse, or in combination.

http://lcadv.org/ Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.dartla.net/ Domestic Abuse Resistance Team in Ruston, Louisiana
For services, please call (318) 251.2255 or 1.888.411.1333.

Red Flags of Abuse

The following is a list of early warning signs that someone may be abusive. This list was put together by survivors of domestic and dating violence who reflected on the early phases of the battering relationship and identified some of the early warning signs of abusers.

Someone who:

Pay attention to the “red flags “and trust your instincts. Survivors of domestic violence frequently report that their instincts told them that there was something wrong early on but they disregarded the warning signs and didn’t know that these signs were indicative of an abusive relationship. Always take time to get to know a potential partner and watch for patterns of behavior in a variety of settings. Keeping in touch with your support system and participating in good self-care can lower your risk of being involved in an abusive relationship.

Source: National Network to End Domestic Violence

If You Are a Victim of Dating Violence, You Might…

Get Help

Being a victim of dating violence is not your fault. Nothing you say, wear, or do gives anyone the right to hurt you. If you think you are in an abusive relationship, get help immediately. Don't keep your concerns to yourself. Talk to someone you trust like a parent, teacher, school principal, counselor, or nurse. 

If you choose to tell, you should know that some adults are mandated reporters. This means they are legally required to report neglect or abuse to someone else, such as the police or child protective services. You can ask people if they are mandated reporters and then decide what you want to do. Some examples of mandated reporters are teachers, counselors, doctors, social workers, and in some cases, coaches or activity leaders. If you want help deciding whom to talk to, call a crisis line in your area. You might also want to talk to a trusted family member, a friend’s parent, an adult neighbor or friend, an older sibling or cousin, or other experienced person who you trust.

Help Yourself

Think about ways you can be safer. This means thinking about what to do, where to go for help, and who to call ahead of time.

Here are other precautions you can take:

http://victimsofcrime.org/help-for-crime-victims/get-help-bulletins-for-crime-victims/bulletins-for-teens/dating-violence#victim

If you are a Tech student, faculty, or staff member you can seek mental health services at the Counseling Center Program on campus or you can contact services in the community. Location: Keeny Hall 310 Phone number (318) 257-2488. Email: counseling@latech.edu

HELP someone else: 

If you know someone is in an abusive relationship, here are a few ways to help:

 


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